Tuesday Re-mix –
The only people who should work without a net are people who have something to prove about themselves. Honestly, but for the entertainment value, I cannot think of any good reason to do it. Nonetheless, as I consult with churches and their leaders, I encounter leader after leader working without the safety net of an accountability group. In most cases these are bright, well-meaning ministers with lots of good things going for them. But they will fall at some point (we all do) and that deafening silence they experience just before the sharp pain of rock bottom will be the complete absence of any support structure in their ministry life…and it will be their own fault, because they never pulled any accountability around them.
More times than not, the reason we don’t subject ourselves to accountability is that we do not like being questioned. This is perhaps even more true when we are following a calling God has placed on our lives. In that case, depending on how comfortable we are in our own skin, we are capable of interpreting every question as opposition (rather than as a helpful thing). And we all know that, when we are doing God’s work, we must either ignore the opposition or steamroll right over it. There are no other options, right?
“I’m not accountable to anybody but God.” Believe it or not, I’ve actually heard this come out of the mouths of more than one pastor. It is silly enough that any of us would think these words to ourselves, but to actually say them out loud demonstrates an entirely new level of both arrogance and ignorance. It is arrogant because it implies that I, as pastor, am wired differently than everyone else–that I am NOT wired for community like …