Tuesday Re-mix –
My South African friend, Frank, tells a great story about being in a motorcycle gang when he turned his life over to the Lord. A member of the gang confronted him: “So, I hear you’re a Christian now.” “That’s right,” said Frank. The gang member continued, “So, if I hit you, you have to turn the other cheek.” “That’s right,” said Frank, “That’s what the scripture tells me.” So the gang member belted Frank, right across the face. Frank obediently turned the other cheek. The gang member hit him again, maybe a little harder this time. Frank straightened himself out, looked back at the gang member…and flattened him. Then Frank told him, “Scripture gives no further instructions after that.”
It’s important to know the rules of engagement.
In the Christian church, the rules of engagement are all spelled out for us in God’s Word. The Bible, then, becomes the cultural guideline for all of our interaction with one another, whether in times of conflict or in times of agreement. In most Christian churches, the Bible is held among the very highest of values. Understanding that culture (i.e., the rules of engagement), then, requires understanding God’s Word. I think it is fair to say that, in the church today, one of the critical limiting factors to finding peace with one another is Biblical illiteracy. By the same token, all of the most effective peacemakers I know in the church, past or present, have had a pretty good working knowledge of scripture.
In the secular world, at least in our culture, the highest value in mediation is the agreement. In other words, that the parties agree is what matters most. It doesn’t matter so much whether the agreement is fair or unfair or good or bad. If the parties