Tuesday Re-mix –
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. James 5:16
Step 5: We admit to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
[I am using these Tuesday Re-mixes for a few weeks to think (again) about addiction to self-reliance and how that addiction is one of the biggest challenges to genuine community which we face in the American church culture.]
I grew up feeling sorry for my Catholic friends because they had to confess their sins to a priest. It seemed to me that such a thing would be the most awful experience in the world. My particular faith community taught me that, when it came to confession, I did not need an intermediary…I could confess my sins straight to God. To be honest, I liked that a lot more, because it was easier to fool myself into believing I had actually confessed to God than it would ever have been to fool a priest. I could go and spend a few moments thinking about my various wrong-doings and thinking about God, and maybe even whisper a few words to God about it all, and then leave feeling like I had done the whole confession thing. Problem solved. Easy to fool myself!
But it’s not that easy when there is a human being on the other end of the confession who can ask you questions for clarification and can make you say the actual words…out loud…describing what you did and who can tell you when they think you’re not “owning” your fault. That, to me, is a less flexible and less manipulatable process. It is very much like the difference …